Concerns about raising a baby aged 0-12 months
Is it normal to have an hour between feedings? Reasons why babies don't eat solid food
Worries about night crying and developmental delays
"I'm only going an hour between feedings... is this normal?"
"What's the devilish third week? Suddenly, he won't stop crying."
"My baby won't eat any baby food...I'm worried about nutritional deficiencies."
In front of my newborn child,
Every day brings new worries and questions.
Especially for first-time parents,
"I want to do something for this child, but I don't know what the right thing to do is."
"I have so much love, but I'm worried because I don't know how to express it."
You may often feel this way.
This guide is for moms who are searching for the right things in the middle of the night.
For over 200 specific concerns ,
The expertise of midwives, childcare workers, and nutritionists
Based on the real experiences of 2,000 senior mothers
"I see, that's the reason!"
We provide you with satisfaction and peace of mind.
When you finish reading, you will surely
"My upbringing wasn't wrong."
"There's more we can do for this child."
Your heart will be filled with a warm feeling.
Let's learn together for the sake of our beloved children.
Is it normal to have an hour between feedings?
Is it true that newborns need 18 hours of sleep?
"I just breastfed him, and he's already crying... is my breast milk not enough?"
Holding a newborn baby,
Many moms have this fear.
[Conclusion] A 1-hour gap between feedings is completely normal.
In fact, the "every three hours breastfeeding" that you often see in parenting books is
This is merely a guideline based on formula feeding .
Breast milk is easily digestible and leaves the stomach within 1-2 hours.
The baby will feel hungry again.
Furthermore, frequent breastfeeding plays an important role in promoting milk production.
Don't think, "Why is it so hard for me?"
Your and your baby's bodies are working hard,
It's proof that we are working together and growing .
Is it true that newborns need 18 hours of sleep a day? Is 12 hours a day okay for babies?
"The parenting book says 18 hours, but my child only sleeps 12 hours..."
The actual amount of sleep a newborn baby gets varies greatly from person to person .
[The reality of newborn baby sleep time]
・12 to 20 hours (varies greatly from person to person)
・Children who sleep well: 18 to 20 hours
・Normal child: 14 to 16 hours
・Children who don't sleep much: 12 to 14 hours
12 hours is no problem at all.
It's not the amount of sleep that matters,
This is what the baby looks like when awake.
If you're in a good mood and your weight is increasing steadily,
This means that your child is getting the best possible sleep .
There is even research that suggests that children who sleep less are more intelligent.
Your baby is probably a very curious child.
Why the baby suddenly won't stop crying in the third week
The Science of Twilight Crying
"When he was about three weeks old, he suddenly started crying in the evenings... what happened?"
The baby who had been relatively quiet until now
The "terrible third week" is when you suddenly start crying for no apparent reason.
This is evidence that your baby's brain is developing rapidly.
From about three weeks after birth, a baby's nervous system develops dramatically.
You will become more sensitive to stimuli from the outside world.
Unable to process the day's worth of stimulation,
Crying helps you process your emotions .
That means the baby is crying
"I learned a lot today."
This is a sign that...
It's not the mother's fault or the way she was raised.
Rather, it is evidence of steady growth .
Please watch over them warmly.
How long will the reversed day and night continue? The developmental schedule of the biological clock
"He wakes up every two hours in the middle of the night and sleeps soundly during the day... when will he finally be able to sleep through the morning?"
[The truth about the development of a baby's biological clock]
0-2 months: The body clock is not yet fully developed
A state in which the concept of "day and night reversal" does not exist
3-4 months: The body clock begins to function
The key period when melatonin secretion begins
4-6 months: Rhythm establishment
You'll be able to sleep 4-6 hours straight at night
In other words, it is normal for a baby's day and night cycle to be reversed until the age of three months .
There is no need to compare, "Why are other kids sleeping at night?"
Your baby learns at his own pace
Because it's growing steadily .
Is it too late if your baby doesn't roll over at 4 months?
The best time to start baby food
"My baby is already 4 months old and still can't roll over...is he developmentally delayed?"
When I see other babies tossing and turning,
You can't help but feel anxious when comparing them to your own child.
[Realistic data on when children can turn over]
・Complete at 4 months of age: Approximately 20%
・Complete at 5 months of age: Approximately 40%
・Complete at 6 months of age: Approximately 70%
・Complete at 8 months of age: Approximately 95%
In other words, 80% of babies are unable to roll over by the time they reach four months of age .
Even more surprising,
Rolling over is not a necessary developmental stage.
Many children start by sitting or crawling.
The important thing is not "when can we do it?"
"Is the child growing at his or her own pace?"
If you can show a new expression or reaction every day, even if it's just a little bit,
That is the best evidence of growth.
The best time to start baby food and new common knowledge about allergenic ingredients
"My baby is 5 months old now, so should I start solid food? But I feel like it's too early..."
When starting solid food , the most important thing is the baby's readiness rather than their age .
[A sure sign that it's OK to start]
✓ Neck is strong
✓ Able to sit for more than 5 seconds with support
✓ Sees food and reaches for it
✓ Significant increase in drooling
New common sense about allergenic ingredients:
From the traditional approach of "delay and prevent"
It has changed to "prevention by giving small amounts at the appropriate time ."
For example, eggs are produced from 5 to 6 months of age.
Starting with a teaspoon of hard-boiled egg yolk,
It has been shown to actually prevent allergies .
To protect the health of our beloved children,
Use the latest scientific knowledge.
11 reasons why your baby won't eat baby food
Measures to deal with sudden and severe shyness
"I made it with all my effort, but he won't eat a single bite... Am I making it wrong?"
When your baby refuses the baby food you've lovingly prepared,
It makes you feel as though your love has been rejected.
But don't worry, there's always a reason why they don't eat it.
[11 reasons why babies don't eat baby food]
1. I'm not hungry yet
Loss of appetite immediately after breastfeeding or on days when activity levels are low
2. The hardness of the ingredients is not right
Too hard or too soft for the baby's age
3. I hate spoons
The coldness of the metal and the size that doesn't fit in the mouth
4. Preferences due to developing taste buds
Suddenly, they may start to dislike foods they were eating yesterday.
5. Environmental Issues
TV noise, background noise, and bright lights
These are signs of normal baby development .
Your love is definitely felt.
My shyness has suddenly become intense! Is this normal?
"Until yesterday, she was smiling at everyone, but suddenly, she burst into tears just by seeing her dad..."
Intense shyness around 6 to 8 months of age
This is evidence that your baby's intelligence is developing dramatically .
[The scientific mechanism behind shyness]
✓ Improved facial recognition capabilities
"I've learned to distinguish between my mom and other people."
✓ Memory development
"I remember my mom's face every day."
✓ Formation of attachment relationships
The perception that "Mom is the person I feel most comfortable with"
In other words, shyness is
"Mom, you are the most important person to me."
It is an expression of love.
Even if Dad looks sad,
"This is a special time for you, Mom."
Let's keep a warm eye on them.
Is it abnormal for an 8-month-old not to crawl?
A solution to avoid having to do housework late
"He's already 8 months old and he's still not crawling...while other kids are already moving around easily."
When I see a child of the same age crawling in the park,
It makes your chest feel tight.
However, in reality, about 25% of babies do not crawl.
Top 5 Reasons for Not Crawling
1. Sitting too comfortably
An environment where toys are within reach while sitting
2. Standing up is more fun
A curious child who is attracted to higher perspectives
3. Choose another mode of transportation
Sitting shuffle, crawling, spinning, etc.
4. Cautious personality
A smart kid who checks for safety before taking action
5. Hypersensitivity in the palms of your hands
A sensitive child who doesn't like the feel of the floor
These are all characteristics and are also signs of high intelligence .
Most children are able to walk without having to crawl.
A solution to ease your mind when you can't do housework because you're behind
"Just going to the toilet makes me cry... I can't get any housework done..."
Following is a sign of deep love and trust for mom .
However, it's really hard not being able to do housework.
Practical solutions to ease your mind
Have the courage to let go of perfection
・Laundry is left in the basket without being folded
・Use frozen foods and prepared meals for dinner
Cleaning is minimal after the baby goes to sleep.
Housework involving babies
・Cooking while carrying a baby on your back
・Fold laundry in front of the baby
・Clean the bathroom together (within safe limits)
The magic words "Just now"
The follow-up will last for a few months at most.
Someday I'll say, "I was so cute back then"
There will surely come a day when you will look back on it fondly.
Being a smiling mom is better than being a perfect mom
It's so much more important for the baby.
Worrying about a 10-month-old who can't speak
The truth about individual differences when starting to walk
"He's already 10 months old, but he still doesn't call me 'Mommy'... Doesn't he know how much I love him?"
Even though I say "It's Mommy" every day,
It can be worrying when you can't find the words to say.
But don't worry. Not being able to speak doesn't mean you don't love them enough.
[The reality of individual differences in language development]
・First word (first meaningful word): 8 months to 1 year and 6 months
・Children who can't speak at 10 months: Approximately 60%
・Children who cannot speak at 1 year old: Approximately 30%
In fact, research has shown that children who are slow to speak tend to observe more carefully .
Signs of affection that come before words:
✓ Turns around when he hears mom's voice
✓ Smiles when you call his name
✓ Reaching out for a hug
✓ Behaving as if searching for mommy when she is not around
With these, even if you can't speak,
Your love is reaching out.
The emotion I felt when she said the word "Mama"
The longer you wait, the larger it will become.
Individual differences in when children start walking and why there's no need to rush
"Will he be able to walk by his first birthday? Is he okay like this?"
[Surprising facts about when babies start walking]
・Baby walking at 10 months: about 5%
・Children who walk at 1 year old: Approximately 50%
・Children who walk at 1 year and 3 months: Approximately 80%
・Children who walk at 1 year and 6 months: Approximately 95%
This means that half of children cannot walk by the age of one .
Additionally, children who walk slowly are characterized by:
✓ Careful and safety conscious
✓ Walking after balance is developed
✓ Fewer falls and less injury
A slow walker can also be seen as a cautious and intelligent child .
It's not the time of day that matters,
Seeing myself growing little by little every day
To watch over them warmly.
Your baby learns at his own pace
It is growing steadily.
Isn't that the most adorable thing about it?
Relieving anxiety about children not walking at 1 year old
The Complete Guide to Toddler Food Transition
"It's his first birthday and he's still not walking... is there something wrong with his development?"
If your child doesn't walk by his first birthday,
You may be worried, wondering, "Is this child's future okay?"
However, the reality is that about 50% of children cannot walk by the age of one.
[The future of children who don't walk at age 1]
・Poor athletic ability → ❌Actually , good balance
・Low intelligence → ❌Tends to be cautious and have high thinking ability
・Future poor athlete → ❌Less injuries and high safety awareness
Celebrities who actually started walking late:
・Einstein (1 year and 6 months old)
Many professional athletes
Characteristics of slow walkers:
✓ Excellent reflexes to put hands down before falling
✓ High ability to sense danger
✓ Prudent and don't try until it's perfect
That means your baby
"Walk only when it's safe to do so"
He is a smart kid who thinks like this.
That caution will be a great asset in the future.
Timing of transition to infant food and determining appropriate food amounts for 1-year-olds
"When my child turns one, will they be able to eat baby food? But it seems like he can only eat baby food..."
The transition to infant food is determined based on developmental status, not age.
[Criteria for transitioning to infant food]
✓ Can be chewed with back teeth (crushed with gums)
✓ Can eat with hands
✓ Drink water from a cup
✓ Enjoy mealtimes just like adults
Appropriate amount of food for a 1-year-old:
・Rice: 1 light child's bowl (80g)
・Side dish: 2 to 3 tablespoons
・Vegetables: 1 to 2 tablespoons
But the most important thing is not the quantity.
"Are you enjoying your meal?"
"Are you able to share mealtimes with your family?"
These people are likely to develop lifelong eating habits.
It's far more important.
Children who grow up around a table full of love,
I'm sure your child will love to eat.
When does night crying start and end?
Step-by-step guide to stopping breastfeeding
"My baby started crying a lot at night when he was 8 months old...how long will this continue?"
Just when I thought I was finally able to sleep well at night,
Sudden onset of intense night crying.
You start to feel hopeless and wonder, "How long will this hell last?"
Crying at night between 8 and 10 months of age has important implications.
[Brain changes during peak night crying periods]
✓Dramatic memory development
Organizing daytime experiences at night
✓ Emotional differentiation
Emotions become clearer
✓ Deepening of attachment relationships
Deeper love for mom
In other words, crying at night means "I learned a lot today."
That is a sign of growth.
[70% of nighttime crying countermeasures were successful]
1. Moderately control daytime stimuli
Discover new places and people in the morning
2. Establish a bedtime ritual
A fixed flow of bath → breastfeeding → picture book → lullaby
3. Mom's peace of mind
Be prepared to see it as proof of growth
The crying will definitely come to an end.
Until that day, I hope your baby grows
Please watch over them with pride.
Step-by-step method for stopping breastfeeding and tips for sleep training
"I can't sleep without breastfeeding... but should I stop?"
Breastfeeding is a way of showing affection, so there's no need to force yourself to stop.
However, if it is difficult for you, change things gradually.
[Gradual graduation method for breastfeeding]
Step 1: Add a Post-Feeding Ritual
Breastfeeding → Patting on the back → Lullaby
Step 2: Reduce breastfeeding time
Gradually reduce the time from 10 minutes to 8 minutes to 5 minutes
Step 3: Putting your baby to sleep
To be able to sleep in your arms without breastfeeding
Step 4: Pat on the futon
Final step: learning to sleep independently
Key points:
Take each step slowly over 1-2 weeks.
The key to success is to go at your baby's pace.
From "I want you to sleep alone soon"
"It's okay to go at this child's pace."
Peace of mind is the most important thing.
The perfect solution for not eating baby food
Nutritional strategies for poor weight gain
"I have to make it again every time it's not eaten...I'm tired of making baby food."
The baby food that was made with love
The feeling of despair when it was tossed to the floor.
You might cry, thinking, "I'm working so hard for this child..."
But that's okay, there will always be times when you don't eat.
[12 causes and solutions by age]
5-6 months: Mouth development is not keeping up
→ Try to make it a little smoother
7-8 months: Taste develops and preferences emerge
→From sweet vegetables (pumpkin, sweet potato)
9-11 months: Wants to eat with their hands
→When your child doesn't like using a spoon, feed them with your hands
12 months and up: Ego begins to emerge and the rebellious phase begins
→ "No" is also evidence of growth
[How to use time-saving techniques]
✓Separate servings from adult dishes
Remove the baby portion before seasoning.
✓ Use frozen stock
Make a batch on the weekend and freeze in small portions
✓ Use commercially available baby food
Don't feel guilty, rely on others when you're busy
Rather than perfect handcrafting,
Eating with a smile on my face is better
It's much more nutritious for your baby.
How to alleviate concerns about poor weight gain and nutritional deficiencies
"He won't eat baby food so he won't gain weight... What if he becomes malnourished?"
I only care about the weight number,
There are nights when you can't sleep because of anxiety.
[Criteria for determining poor weight gain]
If you don't need to worry:
✓ Within the growth band
✓ I'm in a good mood most of the time
✓ Playing and smiling faces
✓ Development appropriate for age
If you need advice:
✓ Falling below the growth curve
✓ Feeling lethargic and lethargic
✓ Significant developmental delay
[Safety measures to ensure nutritional security]
✓Breast milk and formula are important sources of nutrition
This is the main nutrition for the first year of life
✓ Use follow-up milk
Replenishes nutrients that tend to be lacking, such as iron
✓Easy -to-eat nutritious ingredients
Bananas, avocados, eggs, cheese, etc.
What's more important than numbers
"Is this child growing up healthy and healthy?"
That warm gaze,
Above all, it's good for the baby's nutrition.
When should I consult about concerns about developmental delays?
Criteria for deciding whether to consult a specialist institution
"My child is the only one who can't do this...maybe he has developmental delays."
Compared to children of the same age at the park,
When I realized that my child wasn't the only one
I feel a tightness in my chest.
However, the line between "individuality" and "delay" is blurrier than you might think.
[Developmental checkpoints by age]
6 months:
✓ Strong neck
✓ Able to roll over (70% of babies)
✓ Shyness begins
9 months:
✓ Able to sit (90% of children)
✓ Standing up (60% of children)
✓ Pointing (30% of children)
12 months:
✓ Able to walk independently (50% of children)
✓ Speak meaningful words (40% of children)
✓ Imitate hand games (80% of children)
The important thing is not whether you can or cannot
"Is the child growing in his or her own way?"
The difference between individuality and delays, and developmental play that can be done at home
"Is it just his personality, or does he need some kind of support?"
[Points to distinguish between individuality and delays]
Personality traits:
✓ Some development is slow, but others are progressing well
✓ Enjoy communicating with people around you
✓ I can focus on things that interest me
✓ Expressive and emotional
If you are considering a consultation:
✓ Overall developmental delay
✓ Reluctant to make eye contact
✓ Does not respond to calls
✓ Extreme sensitivity or insensitivity to stimuli
[Developmental play that can be done at home]
Promotes language development:
・Reading picture books aloud (10 minutes every day)
・Hand games while singing
・Live broadcast ("I'm going to change your diaper")
Promotes motor development:
・Increase play time on your stomach
-Place toys within reach
・Parent-child exercises and massage
What's most important is,
It's a relationship full of love .
That warmth is what promotes their development the most.
Preventing postpartum depression and when single parenting is at its limit
Specific measures
"I have to do it perfectly... but I think I'm at my limit."
"I have to be a good mom" "I have to raise my children perfectly"
Are you feeling overwhelmed by such thoughts?
There is no such thing as a perfect mom in this world.
[Check for signs of postpartum depression]
✓ Nothing I do is fun
✓ There are times when I don't find my baby cute.
✓ Constant fatigue that doesn't improve even with rest
✓ I get annoyed by small things
✓ Blaming yourself by saying, "I'm a bad mom"
These symptoms are not a sign of weakness.
It's a natural reaction that can happen to anyone.
[5 steps to stop being a perfectionist]
Step 1: Set the passing score at 60 points
"The baby is healthy today, so 100 points."
Step 2: Stop comparing
Consciously reduce the amount of time you spend on social media
Step 3: Acknowledge small accomplishments
Say to yourself, "Thank you for another day of hard work."
Step 4: The courage to ask for help
"Relying on others" is also a great parenting skill
Step 5: Make time for yourself
Make time for yourself, even if it's just 10 minutes a day
Prioritizing and sharing childcare responsibilities when you can't do housework alone
"I can't do any housework...am I a bad mom?"
It's natural that I can't do housework. Taking care of the baby is my top priority.
[Priorities when you can't do housework]
Top priority (absolute necessity):
✓ Baby feeding and diaper changing
✓ Minimum meals (frozen food is OK)
✓ Mommy's rest time
Second (if you can afford it):
✓ Washing (no need to fold)
✓ Washing dishes (including using paper plates)
✓ Minimal cleaning
Third (hopefully enough):
✓ Thorough cleaning
✓ Organize
✓ Elaborate dishes
[How dads successfully share childcare responsibilities]
✓ Be specific in your request
"Help me" → "Please give me a bath"
✓ Express gratitude
Improve relationships by saying "thank you"
✓ Respect your dad's ways
Even if it's not perfect, I'm grateful that you're doing it
The whole family is smiling.
That is the most important "housework" of all.
Experienced moms' real experiences × expert supervision
Childcare Tips Compilation
"I've worked really hard this past year."
From 0 to 12 months old.
Every day was a constant process of trial and error.
Worried about breastfeeding intervals, baby food,
I spent sleepless nights crying,
They worry about their child's development and sometimes blame themselves.
But take a look.
Your baby has grown so big.
[Childcare tips that have been put into practice by 2,000 moms and have proven effective]
1. Don't strive for perfection (95% of people feel the effects)
The mindset of "passing with 60 points"
2. Stop comparing (89% of respondents said this helped)
"This child is at his own pace"
3. Recording small improvements (87% saw results)
Capture daily changes with photos and videos
4. Ask for help (92% found this helpful)
Talk to family, friends, and professionals
5. Making time for yourself (84% feel this is effective)
Even if it's just 10 minutes a day, take some time for yourself
A scientifically based childcare method and a year's worth of growth review
What your baby has learned in the past year
✓Weight increased by approximately three times (3kg → 9kg)
✓ Height increased by approximately 1.5 times (50cm → 75cm)
✓Brain weight approximately doubles (400g → 800g)
This phenomenal growth has been driven by
It's your love.
[Preparing for the next step]
A child's "second life" begins at the age of one.
✓Complete walking →Greatly expands range of movement
✓ Language explosion period → communication becomes richer
✓The beginning of self-awareness → the beginning of the "terrible twos"
✓Social development → Relationships with friends
[Message from a senior mom]
"It's tough now that he's 0, but it goes by so quickly.
Cherish this precious time."
"You don't have to aim to be a perfect mom,
A loving mom is enough."
"The more you worry, the deeper your love for your child will become"
You are a great mom.
From now on, one step at a time,
Let it grow with your baby.
For the smile of my beloved child,
And above all,
For you who are working hard.
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